My
favorite In-n-Out Burger was packed, so Bob, a business acquaintance, made
small talk while we stood in line, “What was your favorite rock group in high
school?”
“The
Association. Saw them in concert and they seemed positive and filled with
promise. I loved the song ‘Enter the Young.’”
And then I recited a verse:
“Here they come, some with
questions, some decisions
Here they come, some with facts and
some with visions
Of a place to multiply without the
use of divisions
To win a prize that no one’s every
one.
Enter the young!”
“You
still remember that?”
I
nodded. “I’ll tell you why. Jules Alexander was a member of the group
whose stated goal was to study the religious life of India. He left the band at its height just to do
that. And when he returned, I saw The
Association once again in concert, but this time they were all drugged out and
seemed empty…all except Jules Alexander.
It made a huge impression on me.”
By
now, we had had received our orders. I dived into my no-salt hand-cut fries.
“So
you think religion made the difference, huh?”
“In
general, I think religion is good for people and makes them better than they
would otherwise be.”
“Are
you kidding? Look at all the wars fought
over religion!” Bob declared as he bit into his Double-Double.
I
pointed a fry at him. “Name a religious war of the 20th
Century.” He frowned. He couldn’t think of any. “I’m sure there was one, but World War I and
World War II were not fought over religion.”
And
then he smiled and said, “Well in this century, we have jihad.”
“You
have a point there,” I relented, “although I wonder how much of that is thugs
using an ideology to unite the masses.”
“Still
religion,” my friend emphasized, “and they want to kill every Jew alive. I’m sensitive to that because I’m a Jew.”
“But
do you think religion itself is bad?” He
shrugged, so I said, “Let me paint a picture.”
He
nodded “okay” as he sucked his chocolate shake.
I
charged on: “Imagine it’s late at night and you’re on a dark street. You see a gang of teen boys walking towards
you. Would you be glad to know they just
got out of a Bible class?”
“Okay,
you got me. And I’ve been baitin’ ya.”
He laughed. “I kinda agree with you, but here’s the problem: most
religious people don’t practice their religion.
But if they did, I would agree that they would be better people and the
world would be a better place.” And that was that.
So
is religion good or bad? I share this
conversation with you because Bob makes a good point. In my opinion, we
shouldn’t be “In” and then “Out” with God.
I firmly believe that we become better with God and religion in our
lives and hearts, and so I urge you to include God in yours…and to keep living.